Free Bertyona Life Survival Kit
Emotional Wellbeing Away From Home
Homesickness, loneliness and difficult feelings can sit alongside hope and gratitude. You do not need to pretend everything is fine. Start with a gentle check-in and one realistic step.
1. Name what you feel
Ask yourself: What am I feeling today? What has been difficult? What has helped even a little?
Feelings can change from day to day. You can miss home and still appreciate your new life.
2. Build small connections
- Choose one low-pressure connection: a trusted friend, local library activity, community group or short call.
- Try a regular routine such as a walk, meal, rest time or a weekly check-in.
- Notice who respects your boundaries and leaves you feeling safe.
Connection does not need to be expensive or immediate.
3. Care without carrying everything
Being far away can bring guilt about family needs and expectations. You can care deeply without being available all the time or promising money you cannot afford.
Try: “I care about you, but I need time to rest and look after my responsibilities too.”
4. When you need more support
If distress persists, affects everyday life or feels unmanageable, consider speaking with a GP or a qualified mental health professional. If you feel unsafe, use the Safety & Support Centre for further guidance.
5. Reflection — what do I need today?
One feeling I can acknowledge without judging myself:
One person, place or activity that helps me feel connected:
One kind boundary or small action I can try this week:
Reminder: Rest and belonging are not things you have to earn.
This is general educational guidance, not personalised medical, legal or immigration advice. If you need immediate safety support, see our Safety & Support Centre.
